Conditionless Love.... Dil Se.. not Dimag Se...

Loving someone who loves you, is very common. But, loving someone who don't (and even don't want to) love you is a bit difficult thing. I always hear about some conversation between the love-birds like "I love you. Do you love me?" It means the expectation always there when you love someone. True... It should be. But...

"Pyar wo gawara hai jo umra ke bade fark se ho....
Lekin wo pyar pyar hi kya jo kisi shart se ho..."

So, loving someone without any conditions, without any expectation is a bit tough, but that makes you a perfect lover. People use to say that love starts from heart, but such kind of conditionless love generates from heart, because heart never think. Only brain can think, and putting conditions is the matter of thinking my dear...!!!

So, if u do love? Love Dil Se.... not Dimag Se.... :)

ENJOY....

Back to the motion again...!!!

I remember a day when I was in the training of NIIT Group Leader Enhancement Program.

The instructor questioned us that if you get Rs. 86400 daily, what you will do with it? Please make sure that you can not save this amount for later use. You have to spend it on the same day.

I found 2 strange things in this question. First is why the figure is not rounded? and second is, why anybody should give this to us? :)

Many of us gave the answers like

(1) I will go and enjoy a lot like movies, parties, drinking etc....
(2) I will give this money to any needy person
(3) I will donate the same to a trust

So lot of answers from the audience.

Then instructor replied, do u know what this amount is. This amount is the sum of the seconds that you are getting everyday. (60*60*24)

Now... this amount can not be only used for enjoyment, this amount of time can not be given to anybody. Only you can spend it. This amount even can not be donated. Because, this is TIME, which will run away from your hand daily.

Everyday you wake up and just think that your 1 day of life has gone. Probably this will make u a bit sad, that your life is being cut off very fast. But instead of that, do one exercise. When u sleep at night, just note down in a diary that which kind of productive work you have done during the day. Which kind of works are pending? What you should do and what you should not... Then next morning, before you think that 1 day is gone, read your diary carefully. It will be possible that there will be continous days which will not have any special activity. But I am sure, that the achievement somewhere in future will be the deep soul searching of these days.

The answer of the above question which was asked by instructor is:

Utilize those amount properly. Share them among (1) Yourself (2) Your friends - including girlfriends/boyfriends ;) (3) Your family and (4) Any noble cause.
Then do not forget to make the balance sheet of the same which should show the expenditure in detail. (The same thing I told about that diary)

I am sure, even after one month or one year if you will read this diary, you will really feel proud that how much you have done in your life. Or may be you will realize that how much should have done...

So, try this exercise. Its good. Frankly telling you, I have never started this yet, but I suddenly remembered this occassion, so now I will definitely try this....

Share your experience once you start writing this...

ENJOY LIFE...

:)

Planning for Rajkot Tonight...

My hometown Rajkot is 225 km from Ahmedabad. So it is possible to visit Rajkot if you have the leave of 1 day. But for me 1 days is not sufficient as I occasionally visit my parent's home because of the burden of many official as well as household duties.

So, grabing the opportunity of the week off for 2 days, visiting Rajkot - my parents' home.

Finished my work just right now and have planty of time till 12 midnight as my bus is at 12:30. So, currently walking here and there like a ghost in a scary house.... And even I am doing the same job as ghost do. Scaring my employees, threatening them for their assignments and targets... It's one kind of ghost activity. Being a boss always make u feel that somewhere.... somebody... sometimes...... might be telling u..... "KHADDUS".....!!! lol....

To start working on a project on a ground-stage is like you are going to build an entire township, but right now you have nothing but a land. Yeah.. exactly it is as difficult as building a township. You have to take care of man-power, resources, legal issues, finance, budget, HR and most important - your project plan and its timeline... The cost-effectiveness of the project relies on these 2 major factors. Anyways.. this blog post is going now more technical and boring....

So, enjoy your weekend.. enjoy life... wl post the next blog once i wl b back from Rajkot.

Bonn Voyage to me...!!!

C ya....

Thursday evening, 16th September, 2010

I have many friends in India as well as in US.

When in midnight I try to contact any of them, I can't get anyone online.... Neither Indian nor US friends....

The reason behind this is, at this time my Indian friends are sleeping and US friends are working. And both will not care a damn for the world while they are in this situations respectively... :)

Being a workoholic is good, but when you come out of that situation, you feel like you dropped into a very lonely station from a super fast Rajdhani Express.... :)

Anyways... if anybody interested in Pakistani Sufi Songs from Rahat Fateh Ali Khan.. get in touch with me. I am mad fan of such songs.... I recently heard "Kande Uthe Meherama Wey..." sung by Rahat Fateh Ali Khan (Original song from Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, his father). Seriously, I could not understand a single word of it, but there was something in that song which touch my heart a lot.

Try some googling on this song. Its a supperbly sung song.

See u then... bye...

Midnight Dreams...

He he he... here I am sitting to write the blog of today, and even don't know what to write?

I am the daily reader of Shri Amitabh Bachchan's blog. I really wonder, how Shri Amitji is able to fill up 3-4 pages of blog daily? How much is there in his mind? Oh yes.... He has a great asset that has been given by his father Shri Harivansh Rai Bachchan. And that is "Madhu Shala". That is the poem which inspires a lot to write. The poem itself is a life which is really sweet to be lived.

चलने ही चलने में कितना जीवन, हाय, बिता डाला!
'दूर अभी है', पर, कहता है हर पथ बतलानेवाला,
हिम्मत है न बढूँ आगे को साहस है न फिरुँ पीछे,
किंकर्तव्यविमूढ़ मुझे कर दूर खड़ी है मधुशाला।।

I have always seen the life as a Race when everyone is running to achieve something... But? What is that which is required to be achieved? nobody knows. At least every race has END Point, but the race of life does not have END. Not even after death. Because it is the death of your body, but your thoughts still make you alive and running from one life to another life.

Well, need to plan for tomorrow's Task List as of now.

Ab ke liye bas itna hi....!!! Dekhte rahiye.... Jigar Ki Dhadkane...!!!

:)

Back to the Work....!!!

Whole Sunday, I spent my time being a Crocodile lying on my "swinging chair" believing like its a water pond, and jumping my eyes from one channel to another channel on TV....

While doing this "productive" activity.... even I forgot to take the bath, which I remembered on afternoon, when i felt my body stinking..... lolz.....!!!

Anyways... It was a very busy day for my wife, as she was busy with Shooting...!!! Hey, don't get confused... though she really loves to be, but not a soldier or a cop... She is an assistant director in a very reputational channel, and it was a very busy schedule for her on Sunday.

In spite of her busy schedule, she has taken care of her crocodile's food... :)

This once again proved that some ladies are always a multi-dimensional and multi-tasking personalities.

People always make jokes and used to say, that once you are getting married, you are finished, your independence is gone and etc... etc..... But what I think is, that it is TOTALLY dependent over your partner as well as ur own nature.

If there is no understanding or conflict of nature between u and ur spouse?? Solve it... be flexible..!! No..!! ofcourse demand from her/him... but if it is not successful or not possible??? Then leave it... let it be.. Try to adjust him/her. I am sure... ur spouse will understand u later....

I really had a very good punchline last week: "Just saying Love You... Love You... does not prove that you love your partner... If it could be, then how a Deaf or Dumb person can love in this world???"

Thats all for today. Will bring some new "Hathoda...s" next time.... :)

Enjoy Life....

Late Evening of Saturday

Wel.... what to write...? I have no clue.... :)

Friends.. tired after having burden of entire week's workload... Listening music right now on my desk. I wish I would have Guitar with me in my office-cabin. Whenever I feel tired, I can start playing the notes which make me relax. I have a colligue who plays guitar very much well, and I have already asked him to teach me how to play guitar... let me c.. how he finds time for it and how I can have for me.... :)

Wel... Bye for now.... Will meet u on Monday with some new thoughts, some new ideas.....

Happy Ganesh Chaturthi, Happy Idd to all....

Equality?

I have a friend in Mumbai. His sister's marriage was getting decided. So the boy has come to see that girl. Just have a look at this conversation. Its very intersting...

Boy: Do you want to ask anything to me?

Girl: How you are seeing the relation of a man and woman?

Boy: Both should have equal rights. Its 21st century, so both should have equal thoughts, equal freedom (etc.. etc... )

Girl: Do you have any habit?

Boy: Look...! Let me be honest. I have the habit of Drinking.

Girl: Oh.. gr8.... Even I also drink.. really happy to know. Which brand you are taking? Have you taken Takilla Shot?

Boy got first of all so much confused.... then he shouted....

Boy: Heeeey.....!!! R u drinking? Being a girl r u drinking? Sorry, I can not accept this... I am rejecting you.

Girl: Before you reject me... I reject you. On one side you are talking big BLAH BLAH.. of man and woman's equality.. and on other side you are not able to accept if a woman have same habit as of man....!!!

Talking about Man and Woman's equality is very easy. Everyone can talk for hours on it. But implementing the same in real life after marriage is extremely hard.

At last girl told: Sorry, I was just testing you. I have never drunk in my life....!!!

So equality is not a subject on which a debate can be arranged. Its an implementation which really proves its meaning.

If she cleans house daily... why can't you do it once?

If she makes food... why can't you make it once you have holiday? Well... hey hey... by the way... I don't know how to cook....!!! But there are many other things which can help her to reduce her daily burden.

Nowadays, many couples are there, in which both are working-persons. So sharing the household work will really improve your marriage life. I bet 100%, once.... only once.... wash all the clothes at your own.... she will have great relief and the love will be doubled.... Hey.. by the way.. do not do it only once.... do it frequently.... otherwise it will be nothing but a show-off....

So share work, enjoy life..... :)

Welcome to My Blog

Dear All,

I am Jigar. U may call me Jigs.

Finishing 30 years of my life, I feel that I have got so many experiences in my life. Which I will be sharing with you. May be this can help you in your life.

The only intention of my BLOG is to spread the message of love across the world.

My only policy is: Make Love.. Make the people Love...

Ruthe rab ko manaana aasaan hai... Ruthi Yaar ko manaana mushkil...... Gaana to suna hoga....

So feel free for any solution you need in your life.

ENJOY.... ZINDGI LAMBI NAHI ..... BADI HONI CHAHIE......

JIGAR